I think what it comes down to is that in a relationship the little things ARE the important things. She touched on the "stupid fights" that had happened, and I feel like those are incredibly damaging in the grand scheme of things. The fight in the museum was a perfect example, I feel, of negligence. The simple fact that he wouldn't entertain the discussion of a painting. Something so small can mean so much in a true love connection. I think that love is the ultimate exploration of the heart and mind... and to suffocate any aspect of that leads to broken hearts, unappeased minds, and broken marriages. To get to the point, I think Yolanda wanted the divorce papers so badly because she knew she would forever be unsatisfied and unappreciated. I think she knew it in her heart that something wasn't right and in times where you HAVE to decide, I think its less painful to stick to you guns, stay the course and get it over with, despite her lonely feelings at night. What do you think about the way it was written? Did anything strike you?